The culture won’t make a bit of sense. You’ll even resent the people sometimes, or think how they do things is ridiculous.
But you’ll learn how to live there. You’ll learn new cultural cues. You’ll begin to see how they do make sense in your new culture. And in the learning, you’ll grow to love the people. So learn to laugh at yourself!
Don’t give up! When you go, determine you’re gonna stay. It’s like God meant marriage to be. It won’t always be easy, but make it work! Don’t expect the other person to change. Change as you need to. And there’s probably no better environment to promote change in us than working in another culture.
One more thing–from the perspective of a former soldier:
“I wish I had learned about spiritual warfare.”
Wherever we’re living right now, we’re smack in the middle of a battle. We need to understand the nature of that battle and our relationship with God so we can be victorious over our enemy. When we cross into another culture, we’re often in places Satan has built strongholds for centuries and where cultural cues vary, the battle looks different. However, Jesus is still greater than the one who is in this world. Our power and victory over the darkness is in God’s hands.
– Tim, who has served for twenty-five years with Wycliffe Bible Translators in Cameroon and the United States.
Boredom is real.
I heard that before I left my home country. But now I have long periods of down time that I used to fill so easily at home. The first two months or so in a new place are the hardest, since you’re establishing new friendships and a new pattern of life.
Knowing yourself is very important.
I’ve been stretched a phenomenal amount, especially in the first months of my assignment. If you have any hidden personal issues, God will bring them to light. Be willing to deal with them as they come up.
Don’t push them away. God often breaks us before using us.
Be teachable. and be a lifelong learner.
It’s easy to depend only upon your ability to figure it out once you get there, since firsthand knowledge may seem more dependable than book knowledge and theories. It’s not true. Know before you go.
Editor’s note: She’s right. Keep yourself from unnecessarily hurting, alienating, or offending others in Jesus’ name, and/or damaging relationships before they begin.
It takes time to ease into the structure.
At home, I had lots of energy to fill my day from early morning to late at night. But overseas, I tire so quickly. Realize that being stretched physically, emotionally, and spiritually as well as facing a new culture, language, and living situation wears you out.
It’s okay to slow down. Being a missionary is not about being superhuman and accomplishing a long list each day. Some days all you’ll accomplish is a trip to the grocery store or a government office. It’s about trust, obedience, and hearing the Master’s voice.
– Bethany, serving in the Middle East with the Assemblies of God.
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